Something for the Weekend

Weekends are more than a little lacking at the moment. But there’s a lot going on online if you know where to look. Might we tempt you…?

Charleston Sunday Series

Immerse yourself in the Bloomsbury group’s literature and ideas with this new series from Charleston at Home. Reader-in-residence Holly Dawson hones in on a topic each Sunday for 5 weeks. These include friendship, home, love and sex, politics and bodies using the their books, essays, articles, letters and diaries as a springboard. Starting 31 January, tickets for all 5 talks £30 or £7.50 each.

Room Portrait Club

Each Sunday a new room is posted on the @roomportraitclub instagram account. You then have until the following week to do a painting or an artist’s impression of it in any medium. Then take a picture, upload it to Instagram and don’t forget to tag – it will be added to the collection on their account. Anyone can join in! This week the room in question is Flora Soames’ beautiful bedroom and you can see some of the interpretations here.

Quill Kickers

On a similar theme to Room Portrait, but this time for stories. Quill Kickers will ask a question on Monday 25 January via instagram – answer it as honestly as you can in the comments section. By Sunday your ideas will be weaved into a chapter one of a new story that drops on their website on Sunday. A kind of modern-day periodical each story runs over 3 chapters, and will leave you on a cliffhanger, with the chance to post more ideas the following Monday.

Chanel Connects Podcast

A new podcast series to tune into this weekend from Chanel. Hear Tilda Swinton, Keira Knightley, Pharrell Williams, Arthur Jaffa, Edward Enniful and Es Devlin discussing the future of arts and culture and how these industries can move forward from the pandemic.

And these will run next Tuesday evening if you want something to look forward to mid-week:

Beginners Illustration with May Van Millingan

Daylesford’s events have gone online, including this illustration workshop with London-based illustrator May van Millingen. Sign up and spend an evening exploring line, tone and texture using watercolours. You will need to gather fruit and veg from your kitchen for the class so make sure you have an appealing variety. 26 January, 6.30-8pm, £20.

Hay Festival Book of the Month

Register for a free Q&A from Hay Festival where Philippe Sands will be talking to author Ruth Coker Burks. Her book, All the Young Men tells true story of a young, single mother at the forefront of the AIDS crisis, caring for others and changing her own life in the process. A virtual book club, you can read along and then join the Q&A’s each month.

How to spice up your Love Life

Lockdown and desire are not two words that naturally trip off the tongue together. The trouble is, as renowned psychotherapist and author of Mating in Captivity Esther Perel says, anchoring feelings of love and compassion (so desperately needed this past year) are at odds with desire, which craves adventure, mystery, risk and the unknown. Desire/fire needs air, which has been in woefully short supply. Now feels the time to dust off the cobwebs, get into the flow and bring some adventure into our lives. In the absence of creating outside conditions – like a weekend away or night out – to influence our mood, we’ve looked closer to home and made full use of each of our senses. Just like people have been doing for centuries even as far back as the gorgeous Sappho (circa 600BC), who wrote ‘Love is a cunning weaver of fantasies and fables.’

See

Let someone else get you in the mood with some of the great sex/desire movies ever made:
Don’t Look Now with Donald Sutherland and Julie Christie (1973)
Basic Instinct with Sharon Stone (1992)
Last Tango in Paris with Marlon Brando and Maria Schneider (1972)

The Cut magazine lists loads more here. And thankfully not a 50 Shades of Grey in sight.

Hear

Turn the lights low, and feel your way with these heady tunes …

Need you Tonight by INXS
I’m on Fire by Bruce Springsteen
Physical by Dua Lipa

Or catch up with a podcast – goodness there are so many to explore depending on whether you are after sex tips or fantasy stories. Here are two pretty safe ones. You’ve probably heard the noise around Demi Moore’s new audio Dirty Diana (on Spotify) and Sex with Emily gives tips from Dr Emily Moore.


Taste

Ship in those aphrodisiacs:

Oysters, order for home delivery from Simply Oysters
Truffles – black truffles are available now. Mix with fresh pasta, butter and parmesan.
Figs are available from this week in Waitrose.

Touch

Buy the sheets you can remember the feel of from your favourite weekend away. Mine would be frette sheets from The Mercer hotel in Manhattan.
Lift the vibe with Necessaire The Sex Gel, £19 from Goop. It’s all packaged up in the best possible taste; just don’t get it mixed up with your favourite face serum.
Do it all by touch; wear a silky eye mask Jessica Russell Flint eye mask, £36 from Harvey Nichols

Smell

The powerful heady Ernesto Cire Trudon candle with hints of leather and tobacco make a heady mix and is guaranteed to get your pulse running high, £80 from Matches
And who said that desire needs to be subtle? This 69 Scent from L’Objet has notes of Cognac and caramel £80 from Mr Porter
Or you can combine scented candle with massage oil with this new brand Aura. Please use responsibly and wait until it’s not too hot when applying … No Love Without Fire, £34 from Aura

Getting in the flow

Give your sacral chakra a wake-up call. Also known as the svadhisthana chakra, it’s the second of the seven chakras, located just below the navel, right in the centre of your lower belly. Yoga poses to get the energy flowing include boat pose, pigeon pose, yogic bicycle, seated spinal twist and breath of fire. There are many how-to tutorials on YouTube.

While we are talking about getting in the zone, it’s good to keep things ticking over with the help of Smile Makers, which come in all shapes and sizes (and colours). If you want to investigate props, Coco de Mer will open your eyes; Selfridges has a small selection of gadgets too in its boudoir section.

For a more analogue approach, how about trying a dedicated sex journal, which you can fill out following a set of prompts, together with your partner and then space for your own thoughts. Even if you were to do it for a few weeks, it would be interesting to see where this takes you. £24 from Goop

Getting dressed up

Let’s talk robes. I haven’t before realised that this was even a thing. But the penny dropped when I saw this Meng robe and I knew I had been doing seduction wrong all these years. Meng belted floral silk-satin robe £990 from net-a-porter

For more wallet-friendly robes try Love Stories – how about this feather-trimmed washed-satin robe. Stella McCartney and Myla are always great for lingerie as is & Other Stories like the ruffled lace soft bra with matching briefs.

The One Thing

What’s the one thing that’s helped you through lockdown? Now that we’re on our third run at it we decided to ask a few of our friends just what it is that keeps them going. Rather impressively, most people struggled to stick to just one:

Allie Esiri, poetry curator

The One Thing (that has helped me) has been inhaling classic works of fiction that I’ve never read before and that aren’t too dauntingly long.  My top three recent reads are utterly unlike each other, but all brilliant: James Baldwin’s “If Beale Street Could Talk”, Neil Shute’s “A Town called Alice” and Alison Lurie’s “Foreign Affairs”. And for nights when my concentration span can only take on a poem, I am finding Vladimir Nabokov’s “Collected Poems” a perhaps unsurprisingly astonishing companion.

Otegha Uwagba, author and speaker

Choco Leibniz biscuits. I’ve been mainlining them throughout the pandemic and such is my love for them that the company who manufactures them actually stumbled across my tweets about them and sent me an entire boxful – so I suppose this inclusion should really have a #gifted disclosure appended to it.

Alexandra Shulman, former editor of British Vogue

Just before the second lockdown I invested in a wood burning stove in the place of an open fire. It’s been worth every penny.  It’s been lovely to have it burning throughout these gloomy lockdown days without worrying if a log is going to fall out and set fire to the house and having to feed it far less often.  Sitting on the floor beside it with a good book makes lockdown almost bearable.

I’ve also begun listening to Chris Country the country music station as an alternative to 24/7 news. The familiar country tropes of barstool nights and open road days, with all the romance and heartbreak involved has been a great antidote to the gloomy newsfeed.

 

 

Francesca Martin, co-founder of A Little Bird 

It’s a lockdown cliché  but I invested in a new pair of Nike running shoes and started to run for 50 minutes every other day.  I had run on and off for years but never consistently.  At first I felt a few aches in my body but as the weeks went by and I watched the seasons pass from winter into spring, I grew to love it.  The feeling of lacing up my shoes, putting my airpods in my ears and literally running away from any tensions or problems as I felt my mind calm, was exhilarating.  A great side-effect was to counter-balance the large amount of chocolate I was consuming too.

Annabel Dover, artist and illustrator

I mostly work from home, often in bed. I’m an introvert so in some ways self-isolation is a state I’m familiar with. I used to live on a small sailing boat on my own and as long as I feel the natural world is nearby I feel ok. I’m at home with my two year old boy Larry and my husband Alex.

The things I’ve enjoyed have been weeding and being in the garden, collecting wildflower seeds, cooking and sending people paintings, cards and packages through the post. I’ve also enjoyed not wearing makeup and not brushing my hair.

When I feel depressed I try to experience nature even though I live in town: the autumn leaves printed on the road, the egret on the river, frost patterns on the weeds in the pavement, spiders webs on the traffic lights.

A few ideas I would share are that the New Yorker short story podcasts are free and brilliant and there’s even a brief analysis afterwards that’s like a relaxing book club where you don’t have to volunteer any opinions and receive intellectual insights. They’re often about half an hour too, so a good length of time if you want to listen in the bath. And have a poetry book by the loo, then you can really quickly read a poem. I like anything by Carol Ann Duffy because she’s so funny. Watch films you love as often as possible-studies suggest watching films has an antidepressant effect – BFI is cheap and brilliant.

Kiki Morris, yoga teacher and founder of Primrose Hill Yoga 

Our family walks on Primrose Hill are definitely the “One Thing” that have helped us get through the last lockdowns. Now these walks have been made even better since our gorgeous friend, Sarine Saba, opened Reenie’s Ice Cream Bar. 10 months ago, Sarine was an actress rehearsing the part of her life at the Royal Court Theatre. Since our theatres are closed, she made a leap of faith and on New Year’s Day opened an ice cream parlour in the little shop below her flat, inspired by 1950s American Soda Shops. Her mission is to spread joy to the neighbourhood and it’s perfect timing as we enter another lockdown and homeschooling phase. Now we can take an ice cream or hot chocolate on our daily walk up the hill and it’s without a doubt helping us stay happy and connected.

Charlie Porter, founder of Tat London

I’ve got a few saviours: Gails Coffee, Hyde Park & Santa Maria Novella Bath Salts.

My boyfriend and I take a walk every morning to try and get out 10,000 steps done. We’re not ‘fit people’ but otherwise you do end up going a little mad. One thing that helps me get out of bed is the knowledge that I can get a Gails coffee on the way. That first sip of coffee never fails to bring me a little happiness.

Hyde park, I’ve always loved it – especially the Italian Gardens. Although it’s not looking it’s best at the moment, it still gives me a jolt of happiness seeing the swans on the pond take off. That and I love dogs. I don’t have a dog, and it’s perfect for perving on other peoples dogs.

Santa Maria Novella bath salts are magic. The smell doesn’t only stay on you for hours but it fills up your home. As a person with a keen sense of smell (brag), this is a bit of a game changer for me.

Luke Edward Hall, artist and designer

I have to say that the previous lockdowns were made so much more enjoyable because of the flowers we grew. In particular, I loved growing sweet peas because the more you pick, the more they grow, meaning we had a constant supply over the summer. I love Chiltern Seeds and bought quite a few packs of seeds from them last year.

Daisy Allsup, editor of A Little Bird

Despite growing up in West London I had never set foot in Brompton Cemetery before the first lockdown. It became my daily oasis; less crowded than the parks, and with a weirdly comforting ambience. I would take a circular route along the east wall where cow parsley came and went, and back up the central avenue with it’s magnificent lime trees that burst into hopeful leaf. For a time it even became the Friday evening meeting place for me and my (socially distanced) parents who might bring along a flask of negroni to toast the end of the week. Having the same walk you do regularly is something I have got into, the repetition is so comforting.

Annie Reid, founder of Lucky Finds and contributor to A Little Bird

Becoming more spiritual has helped to reframe my thinking. Change the things we can change; and leave the ones we cannot. I have crystals, meditation apps and magazine subscriptions to keep me on track. The giant (46cm) Alessi parmesan grater can’t be overlooked though.

Rosi de Ruig, lampshade designer

Two things immediately spring to mind – my insanely gorgeous dog Peggy. Taking her for walks however long or short has been a complete lifeline for me.

Secondly making VERY chocolatey things. I very sadly lost my mother just before Christmas, and a favourite has been making this recipe. Here it is, Mum’s Chocolate Olive Oil Cake:

150ml regular olive oil, plus little for greasing tin
50g good quality cocoa powder
125 ml boiling water
2 tsp vanilla extract
150g Ground almonds or 125g plain flour
1/2 tsp bicarbonate of soda
Pinch salt
200g caster sugar
3 large organic eggs

1x 22cm or 23cm springform cake tin

Preheat oven to 170C/gas mark 3.   Grease tin with little olive oil and line base with baking parchment.

Sift cocoa powder into bowl or jug and whisk in boiling water until you have smooth, still runny paste.

Whisk in vanilla extract then set aside to cool a little.In another smallish bowl combine ground almonds (or flour) with bicarbonate of soda and pinch of salt.

Put sugar, olive oil and eggs into bowl of freestanding mixer with paddle attachment and beat together vigorously for about 3 minutes until you have a pale-primrose, aerated and thickened cream.
Turn speed down a little and pour in cocoa mixture, beating as you go, and when all is scraped in you can slowly tip in ground almond (or flour) mixture.

Scrape down and stir little with spatula, then pour dark liquid batter into prepared tin.   Bake for 40-45 mins (sometimes a bit longer – M) or until sides are set and centre, on top, looks slightly damp.   A cake tester should come up mainly clean.

Let cake cool for 10 mins on wire rack, still in its tin, and then ease the sides of cake with small metal spatula and spring it out of tin.   Leave to cool completely or eat while still warm with some ice cream or mascarpone.

What has helped you through lockdown? Please let us know. Comment, tag us on instagram or send us an email contact@a-littlebird.com

Homeware Sales

Who: Porta Romana
What: Their first ever online sale with discounts of up to 70%.  Items include wall lights, table lights, floor lights, furniture and mirrors.
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Who: CutterBrooks
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Who: Skandium
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Who: TwentyTwentyOne
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Who: The Conran Shop
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Who: Nina Campbell
What: Up to 30% off all homeware and accessories (excluding furniture, wallpaper and fabrics).  Up to 60% off ex-showroom display furniture and homeware
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Who: Arket
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Who: The White Company
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Who: Designer’s Guild
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Essential Lockdown Walking Kit

The warmest socks, best bum bags and next-level headphones. We’re not talking serious hiking gear here, just 10 small things that will make a difference to your daily walks in London or further afield:

Have your phone around your neck with this thick cord and you’ll never have to search your pockets in the freezing cold. Impact crossbody phone case with tie, £49 from Casetify:

A small scarf to protect your neck like a warm cushion. £95 from Jo Gordon:

This will keep out both the wind and the rain. Lightweight waterproof jacket £135 from Hunter:

A double-walled coffee cup that keeps your drink hot without burning your hands. Made from stainless steel and free from BPA. As you might expect, these Chilly cups come in an array of great colours. 340ml or 500ml, £20 from Chilly’s:

Sleek and warm, you can’t beat a simple cashmere beanie with a bobble. Choose from black, red, grey and beige. £79 from Johnstons of Elgin

Freeing you up to use your fingers, wrist warmers let you multi task around the park. Icelandic wrist warmers £69 from Brora:

Cashmere socks are a no go if you are walking any distance as they will wear through within a few outings. Instead, feel glorious in Penelope Chilvers’ wool socks (made in Scotland), which come in navy, green, grey and these wonderful cream ones. £25 from Penelope Chilvers:

Transport yourself to another realm with these mind-altering headphones. Bang & Olufsen Beoplay H4 over-ear headphones £250 from Selfridges:

A bum bag so you just carry your essentials. Gwyneth Bum Bag in Golden Palm, £30 from Nola Boutique:


A failsafe pair of waterproof boots, so stylish you won’t even need to take them off once you’re home. Dark green classic boot, £170 from Blundstone:

What to Listen To Now

We’ve always got an ear out for a new podcast, particularly in a rather dank January. Here’s what we’re tuning into now:

Air Mail’s Morning Meeting

Funny, intelligent conversation ranges from the rise and fall of Moda Operandi to the storming of the US Capitol. Guests include Candice Bergen, David Sedaris, Ina Garten, Daniel Boulud, Thomas Keller, Cazzie David. The show has two regular hosts as well as sometime-appearances from Air Mail’s co-editors Graydon Carter and Alessandra Stanley.

Everything Under the Sun

This brilliant podcast has just returned for a second series and might offer a break from home-schooling. ‘Why do rockets fly to planets?’ is answered by Richard Branson, ‘Why do horses wear shoes?’ is answered by Clover Stroud, ‘Why do we do yoga?’ is answered by Zephyr Wildman. Each episode is 10-15 minutes long and driven by questions posed by inquisitive children – you can submit yours here.

The Doctor’s Kitchen

This podcast delivers sage nutritional advice in an approachable way thanks to having an NHS GP as its host, Dr Rupi Aujla along with a range of expert guests. Can you eat for COVID? is the topic of a recent episode with Professor Robert Thomas. There’s also eating for anxiety, eating for migraines, eating for the menopause, eating for immunity and more symptom-specific episodes as well as general wellness chat.

A Promised Land by Barack Obama

Eleven 15-minute episodes where Barack Obama reads selected excerpts from his newly-published presidential memoir, A Promised Land. The book itself is a tome of over 700 pages, so this is a way to dip your toes in.

Period Power with Maisie Hill

A new podcast from Maisie Hill, menstrual health expert, acupuncturist, life coach and author of the book, Period Power. Three episodes are out so far, the most recent of which suggests swapping new year’s resolutions for a simple one-word intention. This can be set at the start of the calendar year, as well as at the start of every cycle. It’s pleasingly simple – just think about how you want to feel and come up with a word that fits. It could be playful, resilient, creative etc. and that is your starting block.

Desert Island Dishes

A comforting, undemanding listen. Margie Nomura hosts guests like Ruth Rogers, Alison Roman and Nadiya Hussain who discuss their favourite sandwiches, fantasy last meal and the dish they cook the most often. A new series started in December with episodes landing on Thursdays.

The Missing

A new True Crime podcast hosted by Pandora Sykes that explores the 1% of long-term missing people in the UK who have never been traced. Each episode centres around a new case with the hope that the listeners might be able to help share more information via the Community Board.

 

Mood-Boosting Recipes from Wild by Tart

We all need a bit of inspiration to eat well at the moment. Wild by Tart share their top recipes for January including an energy-giving Asian salad, a restorative mushroom soup and a comforting spicy peanut and aubergine curry. Plus a teatime treat of crunchy, nutty millionaire’s shortbread.

Asian crunchy salad (serves 4-6)

Tofu marinade:

Tofu 340g
4 tbs Sesame oil
4 tbs Soy sauce
2 tbs Rice wine vinegar
Ginger, 2 inches, grated
1 garlic, pressed
1 chili, finely chopped
2 lime juice and zest
1 lemon grass, finely diced
1 tbs maple syrup

1 Brocoli, cut into florets
1 avocado, cut into cubes
Handful sugar snaps, cut lengthways
½ Cucumber, peeled, sliced lengthways, deseeded and cut into crescents
Shitaki mushrooms, rough sliced
Radishes, cut into quarters
Small bunch coriander and mint leaves
2 lime leaves, finely stripped
5 spring onions, finely chopped
Peanuts, toasted and roughly chopped
Sesame seeds, toasted
Brown rice (cook for 4-6 people), cooked to instructions. Drizzled in sesame oil

Sauce (all ingredients to be blitzed in a magimix or blender):
2 carrots
1 lemon grass
2 inches, ginger
1 garlic
1 tbs peanut butter
2 tbs rice wine vinegar
1 shallot
1 tbs honey
1 tbs soy sauce
2 tbs miso paste
2 tbs water

Make sure you get most of the water out of the tofu by pressing it in kitchen towel, then cut it into 2cm cubes and marinate for at least an hour.

Blanch the broccoli, so its still crunchy and then mix together with the other salad ingredients.

Divide the rice between your  bowls, top with the mixed salad. Sprinkle the seeds over the top and added coriander. Drizzle any remaining marinade over the top. Serve with the carrot sauce.

Spicy Peanut Aubergine Curry (serves 4)

Healthy curries are the ultimate way to give yourself a dose of comfort any night of the week. This recipe is wonderfully rich and filling with a smoky spice and satisfying crunch of peanut, that is heightened and harmonised with a zingy yoghurt.

For the curry paste:

2 red peppers (from a jar)
5 garlic cloves
thumb ginger
2 lemon grass (bottom chopped and tough outer layer removed)
3 shallots
4 lime leaves
medium bunch coriander stalks
5 red chillies- deseded
2 tsp smoked paprika
1 tsp ground cumin
2 tsp ground coriander

For the curry itself:

1 tin coconut milk
250ml stock
1 tbsp tamarind
2 big aubergine- cut into large chunks (2 inches)
2 tsp cumin seeds
1 tbsp of crunchy peanut butter
Squeeze maple syrup
1 lime- juice

Optional:

4tbsp yoghurt
2 limes zested and juice.
1 tbsp of finely chopped shallot.
1 tsp ground cumin

Blitz your curry paste to a smooth paste, add a little water if needs be.

Heat a large frying pan and in batches fry your aubergine over a high heat in a little groundnut oil until golden all over, adding cumin seeds at the last few minutes to crisp up with it.

Now in a pot heat some coconut butter over a medium heat and add your paste making sure it doesn’t catch (lower the heat if needs be). Keep cooking until fragrant. If starting to dry or catch you might add a little water.

Now add the stock, coconut milk and tamarind and simmer for 5 minutes until infused. Then add the aubergine and a good squirt of honey and slowly simmer for a further 15 minutes, then add peanut butter and mix through and infuse for a few more minutes.

Finish with a good squeeze of lime, now taste to see for adjustments- maybe more spice, salt or tang needed.

Mix yoghurt mixture and season. Serve with steamed rice and garnish with toasted chopped peanuts, freshly chopped coriander and chilli and a dollop of yoghurt mixture.

Restorative mushroom soup (serves 4)

1 tbsp coconut oil
2 inch piece of ginger, peeled
3 shallots
2 red chilies
2 lemon grass sticks
3 garlic cloves
2 lime leaves
Stalks from a bunch of coriander
1 tsp ground coriander
1 tsp ground cumin
1 tsp ground cinnamon
Handful of dried porchini mushrooms
2 limes – zest and juice
750ml Stock (vegetable or chicken)
1 tsp tamerind paste
1 tsp Fish sauce
1 tbsp Soy sauce
1 ½ tsp palm sugar (or maple syrup)
Garlic clove, thinly sliced
250g Shitake mushrooms – chopped into quarters
250g enoki mushrooms

Sesame oil
Udon noodles
Tofu
Spring onions
Radishes
Coriander leaves
Sesame seeds

Finely chop the shallots, ginger, chilies, garlic, lemon grass and coriander stalks (or blitz in a food processor).

Heat the coconut oil in a pan and add the above, sauté for 5 minutes then add the spices, lime leaves, shitake and enoki mushrooms and lime zest, heat for another 2 mins, keep stirring to make sure it doesn’t burn.

Then add the stock, tamarind, fish sauce and soy sauce. Simmer keeping to a medium heat for at least 20 minutes to allow the soup to infuse.

Next dry the tofu between paper towel and cut into cubes, fry in a pan with ground nut oil until crisp and golden then add a splash of soy sauce and sesame oil. While these cook, slice up the spring onions, radishes, coriander and chilies for your topping.

Cook your noodles according to the packet instructions. Serve in a deep bowl with the broth, mushrooms and tofu, adding all the pretty toppings, finishing with a few coriander leaves and toasted sesame seeds.

Crunchy nutty millionaires shortbread

For the base:
250g pecans, toasted
200g Gluten Free digestive biscuits
250g prunes
2 tbsp coconut oil

For the middle:
300g almond butter
300g peanut butter
200ml maple syrup
good pinch of sea salt

For the top:
250g good quality dark chocolate – we use Green and black
2 tbsp coconut oil
sea salt

Bash the pecans and the biscuits until they’re quite fine (either in a food processor, or put in a bag and hit with rolling pin).

Heat the prunes in a small pan with a glass of water and the coconut oil till simmering then place in the food processor and pulse. Add the prune mixture to the pecan and digestives and mix with your hands till combined.

Line a 20cm x 20cm tin with cling film and press the mixture into the tin evenly, place in the freezer for 30 minutes.

Mix together the almond butter, peanut butter, maple syrup and salt then take the tray out of the freezer and poor in the mixture.

Lastly melt the chocolate and the coconut oil carefully in a small pan then poor into the tin, spread evenly and sprinkle with salt. Place back in the freezer for 30 minutes. Cut into squares and serve. Keep in the fridge covered for a week.

For more recipes, the book A Love of Eating: Recipes from Tart London by Lucy Carr-Ellison and Jemima Jones, £25 is available here

How to get rid of your ‘Mummy Tummy’

This time two years ago, I decided to do something about my stomach.  It had been five years since I had given birth to twins and whilst I had lost my pregnancy weight, my stomach resolutely refused to flatten and was rather jelly-like.  I had been doing some pilates and my teacher told me that I had diastasis recti, the gap that occurs when the muscle ‘belt’ around your middle doesn’t knit back after pregnancy or sports.  (If you’re unsure about what this is or if you have it, follow these guidelines on how to do a test here). After some research online, I came across which recommended around 10 to 20 minutes of specific exercises to help with pelvic floor and diastasis recti problems. ’10 minutes a day’, I thought, I can do that.  Every Mother is separated into three different parts – before pregnancy, up to 6 weeks after birth and then anytime in the years following.  You fill in a questionnaire which helps you find the right programme for you.  I did the EM Body Reclaim programme for 3 months.  (Note: this is an American programme; there are others out there but I liked the fact that it was proven to work.  If you want to feel inspired, just read the Stories section).

And so for around 10 to 20 minutes every night before bed, I did the exercises which involves two intakes of breath whilst pulling up your pelvic floor at the same time.  The exercises were varied enough so it didn’t get too boring and I even found it rather calming, spending those dedicated minutes concentrating on nothing but counting and breathing guided by the app on my phone.

Around the same time, I started doing more exercise (around 3-4 times a week of swimming and aerobic exercise) and after 3 months, I really did feel full of energy, my skin glowed and I was astonished to find that I had lost 4 inches around my waist (the programme prompts you to enter in your details as you go along so you can see your progress but I didn’t bother so was rather surprised by the end results).

Two years later, my stomach isn’t what it was (especially after Christmas eating cookies and Quality Street) but it feels like it has a memory that wasn’t there before and I know that as I take up my exercise regime again, it will go back.  Maybe not what it was exactly before I gave birth but considerably closer than it was.

What We’re Looking Forward to in 2021

So apart from the obvious (vaccinations, freedom, holidays!), there are a lot of things that we’re looking forward to this year.  From the first issue of Vogue Scandinavia this Spring to the very-delayed James Bond film No Time to Die (at last!) to a new Adele album.  Read on for much, much more.

If you loved Adam Kay’s bestselling memoir, This Is Going To Hurt, about his trial and tribulations being a junior doctor like we did, then you’ll be looking forward to the BBC 2 dramatisation starring Ben Whishaw as Adam in a new eight-part series airing early this year. Another book getting the tv treatment is Nancy Mitford’s classic The Pursuit of Love on BBC and Amazon, directed by Emily Mortimer and starring Lily James, Dominic West and Andrew Scott.  If you liked The Undoing, then keep your eyes peeled for Nine Perfect Strangers by Big Little Lies Author Liane Moriarty.  We have to admit that we didn’t love the book ourselves but the drama will star Nicole Kidman as the mysterious Russian woman running a luxury wellness retreat and with Melissa McCarthy and Luke Evans also starring, it will be well worth checking out on Sky Atlantic. Later in the year will also see the release of the Friends reunion, a new HBO series with Kate Winslet (below) playing a detective in The Mare of Easttown, the much-anticipated tv adaptation of Sally Rooney’s Normal People in a 12 part series and finally, both Sex Education and Succession return for their third series.
In the art world, it’s likely that a lot of exhibitions are going to be shifting dates but at the moment the V&A’s Alice: Curiouser and Curiouser about the origins, adaptations and reinventions of Lewis Caroll’s classic is still scheduled to open on March 27th.  Two days later on the 29th March, Yoyoi Kusama’s Infinity Rooms at Tate Modern opens which is bound to be hugely popular.  Two shows which were due to open earlier – Francis Bacon’s Man and Beast, spanning his 50 year career and the V&A’s Epic Iran with more than 300 objects from over 5,000 years – will both hopefully open sometime in the Spring.   Meanwhile, later in the year, we’re looking forward to David Hockney: The Arrival of Spring, Normandy and later on Marina Abramovic at the Royal Academy, The Making of Rodin at Tate Modern and the retrospective of Paula Rego at Tate Britain.
Theatre too will be changing their release dates but hopefully still coming this year will be Michael Grandage’s musical adaptation of FrozenDavid Tennant in Dominic Cooke’s revival of CP Taylor’s play Good at the Harold Pinter Theatre, Sir Andrew Lloyd Webber’s musical version of Cinderella, Back to the Future and 101 Dalmations musicals, Aaron Sorkin’s stage adaptation of Harper Lee’s To Kill a Mockingbird, Life of Pi produced by Cameron Mackintosh and a rumoured but not confirmed return of Jerusalem with original star Mark Rylance.

We hope to be reading a lot this year and there are some great titles coming. Kazuo Ishiguro’s first novel since he won the Nobel prize for Literature in 2017 is Klara and the Sun about an artificial friend waiting in a shop to be bought by a human (Faber, March).   Edmund de Waal tells the story of a a belle époque family and their private art collection in Letters to the Camondo (Chatto, April).  Zadie Smith rewrites the story of Geoffrey Chaucer’s The Wife of Bath Prologues to London’s Kilburn High Road in The Wife of Willesden (Hamish Hamilton, June). Colm Tóibín’s new book, The Magician, is about the German novelist Thomas Mann living in exile in LA during WWII (Viking, September) and if you liked Elizabeth Strout’s Olive Ketteridge books then her new novel O, William! is out in September (Viking).

Films we can’t wait to see include The French Dispatch by Wes Anderson inspired by The New Yorker and starring Bill Murray, Frances McDormand, Tilda Swinton, Elisabeth Moss, Edward Norton, Owen Wilson, Timothée Chalamet, Saoirse Ronan and Léa Seydoux. Timothée Chalamet also stars in the remake of Dunethere’s a new Fantastic Beasts film being released and Tom Cruise returns in Top Gun: Maverick.  And Peter Jackson’s new Beatles documentary, Get Back sounds like a don’t-miss with over 56 hours of unseen footage.

Forever Buys: up to 70% off best of the sales

We’ve trawled the sales, so you don’t have to. Shop the classics and wear them forever – from the perfect Blazé Milano smoking jacket and a camel MaxMara coat to Chloe ballet flats – all at up to 70% off.

Freida silk blouse,

Resolute everyday wool blazer by Blazé Milano,

Metallic fil coupé silk-blend chiffon blouse by SAINT LAURENT,

Chloe Lauren ballet flats,

Chloe leather and suede knee high boots,

Isabel Marant Etoile Mansel hoodie,

Belted cashmere sweater,

Panama small moon compact purse,

Alexander McQueen gathered sill-satin bustier top,

V10 Nautico leather sneakers by Veja,

Belted midi dress,

Michelle denim skirt,

Neeson tote,

Wool and cashmere coat,

Cotton-Gabardine trench coat by Burberry,

The Bombette metallic lace dress by The Vampire’s Wife,

Secret Studio Sale from Partnership Editions

We’re looking forward to Partnership Editions’ first Studio Sale that will go live from 13th January for four days. It’s the first time the platform has had a sale and the prices will be up to 40% off. Whilst the artworks themselves are being kept under wraps we can reveal the full list of 12 artists who will be involved: Lisa Hardy, David Hardy, Chica Seal, Frances Costelloe, Jonathan Schofield, Isabelle Hayman, Venetia Berry, Hester Finch, Julianna Byrne, Cecilia Reeve, Ruby Kean and Alexandria Coe. You can browse all of these artists and their work here. Then, to enter the sale you’ll need to register in advance by signing up with your email address. You’ll receive a password on the morning of 13th January that gives you access to the hidden online portal where the secret sale takes place.

Multiflora series by Lisa Hardy

 

The North Face x Gucci and more cosy coats

We need a little more encouragement to get out for those daily lockdown walks given that it’s freezing outside. These happy-making coats and fleeces might just help coax you outdoors:

The North Face x Gucci has just launched at Selfridges and runs until the end of January. You need a video call appointment if you want to shop the collection – these are currently sold out but more will be released throughout the month. Follow their Instagram to be the first to hear when they slots go live, and view the collection here.

This powder blue puffer will carry you to spring – the bottom half is detachable so it becomes a short jacket length. £280 from Paloma Wool:

The North Face x Liberty Sherpa fleece, £180 from Liberty:

Like wearing a cloud, Sing puffer coat £276 from Ba&sh:

Bring on spring in a floral-printed quilted coat, £2650 by Balenciaga at MATCHES:

Zingy drawstring-waist hooded puffer, £34.99 from H&M:

Teddy-bear fleecy vest to wear indoors and out, €225 Soeur

Maude collars, hand-knitted in Scotland, can be added to any coat or jumper and come in three striped colour ways, £110 from &Daughter:

Hank waistcoat in vegan shearling, £135 from LF Markey:

Made with fur-free-fur that’s both recycled and fully recyclable, the KOBA is now £763 (was £1525) from Stella McCartney:

Quilted plaid Sur Jacket, £550 from DÔEN:

A wearable winter gingham, this Beth fleece coat comes in deep blue and black, £290 from Stine Goya:

It’s goodbye for now…

The team at A Little Bird are taking a break to recharge and make some exciting changes behind-the-scenes. We look forward to seeing you again soon.

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